Studies shows that women tend to sleep with other men if they become aware their partner cheated on them. What goes for the goose goes for the gander and all that. Unfortunately, it seems our mothers were right when they taught us that two wrongs don't make a right.
This is called revenge cheating. They do it because they can, because it's so easy and because they think it'll heal their pain, only to find it adds immense complications to an already shattered relationship. Most affairs happen in unhappy marriages/relationship and it's often not just about the s*x it's about a shared intimacy with someone other than your partner. It is this "secret intimacy" that is highly indicative of a breakdown of honesty, trust and opens communication, the pillars of a healthy marriage, which is why affairs are highly predicative of failed marriages.
The question for women to answer is what are you supposed to do to safeguard your marriage/relationship against a potentially destructive affair? Well, there are various different schools of thought. I think the trick lies in emotional intimacy and open communication channels.
What do you think?
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