Dear DQR readers i need your help with issue am facing . It is a different story when someone goes into a relationship knowing they are the 'side lover' but what happens if you are in a relationship that you think you are the only one...and you are the only one who doesn't know that you are not the only one? If you find someone you love dearly in this situation,would you blow the whistle or keep quiet for fear of being tagged Jealous? telling could save your friend from a broken heart but could also break whatever ties you have with that person.
I am a young medical doctor, i have this female friend who isn't my girlfriend but we are quite close (people say i have been friend zoned) now this story is all about her. She has been in and out of relationships, however late last year fortune kinda smiled on her or so i thought, she was very very happy and according to her this new guy who is based in Lagos was her*eminado*.
Later i noticed she didn't want to talk about it as she claimed he was a private person, that kinda raised a suspicion as i wondered what is the meaning of being private..SSS?C.I.A?...lol....Another of our classmates actually confided in me that gbemi always calls /chats up the guy that the guy hardly calls as much as she does.
Val's day story is another long thing, i always tried to ask if she was happy and she would always say yes but i had a feeling something was amiss. Luckily for me i knew someone who knew the guy in Lagos very very well family wise. ?So.... i jokingly asked my guy and the revelations i got is unprintable.
However the little i can divulge here is that the guy is actually 34yrs old, was deported from South Africa and has no job at all, in fact he still stays with his mother and feeds off her also....to crown it all the said guy actually has a steady relationship with another babe also based in lag.When i asked my guy about my own friend he was like he had never heard the guy talk about her that its the other Lagos babe he knows.
I scopingly asked gbemi what she knew about this guy and all she said contradicted what my guy told me, even with all the evidence i had gathered i couldn't bear to face her as i didn't want it to look as an intentional fault finding hunt.
fellow DQR this is where i need your help and am gonna ensure she gets to read this and your comments thereafter...I am not writing off this guy o but why sweet talk a girl just to get in between her legs? What happened to coming out clean and being accepted as you are, i pity the so called Lagos main babe sef ,wonder if she knows the guy also but then that one no concern me, shebi they say if one will eat a toad one should ensure its the one that has eggs..
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what if you are made to look like a liar?
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