I read the other lady's predicament on this blog a few days ago and sadly I am in the same situation. The spark has gone from my marriage barely a year after it was contracted. My marriage wasn't what I expected it to be and sometimes I wish I were single again. But unlike the other lady, my husband is not a brute and I am not willing to give up on this marriage without at least trying. We don't have any children yet and a good friend advised me to have a child and it will bring my husband and I closer together again.
Is this for sure? Because I don't want my children to come from a broken home so I am worried about getting pregnant for a man and a marriage I am no longer sure of. What do you fellow readers think?
Bella's Note:
Yes a child can bring a couple together when things are done the right way........In most situations ladies who dated a guy for so long and didn't get a "please be wife" often get pregnant hoping they can keep the guy by been pregnant, but in your situation you are married and not sure about your marriage, i wouldn't advice you to get pregnant. Your first option should be to locate the problem in your marriage and fix it by doing this you would lay a better foundation for bringing in kids... DQR please send in your views....
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